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The other day I had a booking with a regular. We always have a good time (see the broken bed frame blog and the ice cubes blog) but this most recent time was something else.

He ravished me soooo good, His tongue was on a whole other level. Presumably because we see each other often and there is a mutual trust and affection.

When I tell you I came harder and better than I had in years…. you better believe it.

It felt like i was levitating out of my body. My voice changed pitch, became a husky, primal, growl that was all new to me. I grabbed his head and held it to me regardless of his need for oxygen (only for a few seconds, lol)

When I came back into my own panting, sweaty body, I was shaking and sobbing ecstatic tears. He was cuddling my voluptuous thighs, kissing them and stroking my belly soothingly.

The power in his eyes told me enjoyed seeing me absolutely wrecked…and just when I thought it was all said and done, he dove back in for more!!

“Stealthing” refers to the non-consensual act of removing a condom during sexual activity without the awareness or consent of the other person or people involved. The term can also be used to refer to a person damaging a condom before or during application without their sexual partner(s) knowledge or consent so that it becomes less effective at preventing pregnancy or STI transmission.

The simple truth is no one likes condoms, no one wants to use one, but for our safety and yours, we must.

Your service provider will supply if needed, if you have a particular size, shape, feature, material or brand you prefer than ask for that or you supply.

Under no circumstances is it ok to agree to use a condom and then secretly remove it!

I dont care if its sliding off, get another one. If you dont like how they feel or if you cant finish with one on. There are ways around that that feel just as great. If its an allergy, supply the type you are not allergic too.

If you remove the condom, you remove the consent.. simple as that. If you remove the condom, thats called Sexual Assault / Rape.

Okay guys…..what is up with all the time wasters, Ghosters and no shows?!!

It is not okay to spend countless hours messaging and then never booking.

It is not ok to book and then not show up!

It is not ok to book, say you’ll send the address closer to the appt time and then ghost!

If you need to cancel: let us know, shoot us a message. reschedule or dont, just tell us you are not cumming!

Listen up gentlemen, when your service provider says “Condoms are required for all services,” that means sex and oral…that doesn’t mean: you are the only one, that you can shame, guilt, convince or pay them to disregard their safety and boundaries. And it doesn’t mean that halfway through the service you demand the condom be removed. That is the fastest way to have the service provider walk out with full payment and black list you.

Please remember that for every girl you talk to, she is talking to 15 prospective appts. She is the commodity, not your money, she will find money elsewhere. Yes we talk to each other, yes we warn each other about disrespectful boundary pushers. Yes we have a blacklist of Ghosters, no showers, boundary pushers and hagglers. If you want to remain in the good books, actually be a good person (with your actions), don’t just say it and think it’s true.

After countless “Hey”s, “rate?”s, “available?”, “whats up?” and “car date?”s I was starting to believe that the men on Vancouver Island were never taught to read… lol.

However your species has been redeemed! I received a lengthy email full of details. His availability, what services he was interested in, what kind of experience he wanted (straight to it or friendly banter first…etc) I loved it and he was instantly prioritized. He didn’t ask me anything that was already written in my ad and set the expectations perfectly. He even tipped and wrote a review!! Love when you find a guy that makes you glad to be in this business!

Gotta love when you walk into the bedroom and see a bowl of ice cubes on the nightstand!

It was a scorching hot day but I was kept nice and cool, from the inside.

After circling my nipples, lips and lips, to melt away the edges, many ice cubes were inserted in the most delicious place.

Could he feel them through my walls? Just the cold seeping from one chamber to the next or the actual cubes themselves rubbing on his shaft?

And the delicious feeling of the melted water sloshing around while we fucked… mmmmm.