Listen up gentlemen, when your service provider says “Condoms are required for all services,” that means sex and oral…that doesn’t mean: you are the only one, that you can shame, guilt, convince or pay them to disregard their safety and boundaries. And it doesn’t mean that halfway through the service you demand the condom be removed. That is the fastest way to have the service provider walk out with full payment and black list you.
Please remember that for every girl you talk to, she is talking to 15 prospective appts. She is the commodity, not your money, she will find money elsewhere. Yes we talk to each other, yes we warn each other about disrespectful boundary pushers. Yes we have a blacklist of Ghosters, no showers, boundary pushers and hagglers. If you want to remain in the good books, actually be a good person (with your actions), don’t just say it and think it’s true.